Alicia Inkster
Alicia Inkster: Reflection and Celebration
As a Korean adoptee growing up in Canada, I have been privileged to live in such a beautiful, multicultural and welcoming country. I was adopted into a loving family at 18 months old that consisted of two older brothers, one older sister, all biological to my parents and later in life, my parents adopted my younger sister from Guatemala.
As I was growing up, my mother was the head of the Open Door Society, a non-profit, volunteer-run organization open to families formed through adoption. She also helped organize workshops working closely with the Children’s Aid Society. Her dedicated involvement in these organizations helped me stay in touch with other adoption support groups. My parents always felt that it was important for me to learn and embrace Korean culture and surround myself with other adoptees. They also made sure that I stayed connected with the Korean community by attending Korean New Year’s events, annual get togethers, attending special events, etc. By participating in these events, it has helped that cultural connection stay alive.
As an adult, I feel very fortunate to have been given a second chance at life, or at least that’s how I see it. I’ve realized that living in such a fast-paced society, we sometimes take life for granted. It has taken me years to understand that my biological parents put me up for adoption to allow me to have a better life than what they could provide. I am so grateful to have this opportunity, and continuously have endless support from my family and friends.
In closing, I feel very fortunate to have grown up in such a loving family. With my parents support throughout the years, I have always felt that I can accomplish anything. Happy Canada 150 to all the Canadian-Korean adoptees. I hope that you feel proud and fortunate to live in such a great country!